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Wednesday, May 18, 2011

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50 Things Every American Should Know About The Collapse Of The Economy
 From The Economic Collapse Blog

Right now, we are witnessing a truly historic collapse of the economy, and yet most Americans do not understand what is going on.  One of the biggest reasons why the American people do not understand what is happening to the economy is because our politicians and the mainstream media are not telling the truth.  Barack Obama and Federal Reserve Chairman Ben Bernanke keep repeating the phrase "economic recovery" over and over, and this is really confusing for most Americans because things sure don't seem to be getting much better where they live.  There are millions upon millions of Americans that are sitting at home on their couches right now wondering why they lost their jobs and why nobody will hire them.  Millions of others are wondering why the only jobs they can get are jobs that a high school student could do.  Families all across America are wondering why it seems like their wages never go up but the price of food and the price of gas continue to skyrocket.  We are facing some very serious long-term economic problems in this country, and we need to educate the American people about why the collapse of the economy is happening.  If the American people don't understand why they are losing their jobs, why they are losing their homes and why they are drowning in debt then they are going to keep on doing all of the same things that they have been doing.  They will also keep sending the same idiot politicians back to Washington to represent us.  There are some fundamental things about the economy that every American should know.  The American people need to be shocked out of their entertainment-induced stupor long enough to understand what is really going on and what needs to be done to solve our nightmarish economic problems.  If we do not wake up enough Americans in time, the economic collapse that is coming could tear this nation to shreds.
The U.S. economy was once the greatest economic machine in modern world history.  It was truly a wonder to behold.  It worked so well that entire generations of Americans came to believe that America would enjoy boundless prosperity indefinitely.
But sadly, prosperity is not guaranteed for any nation.  Over the past several decades, some very alarming long-term economic trends have developed that are absolutely destroying the economy.  If dramatic changes are not made soon, a complete and total economic collapse will be unavoidable.
Unfortunately, the American people will never agree to fundamental changes to our economic and financial systems unless they are fully educated about what is causing our problems.  We have turned our backs on the principles of our forefathers and the principles of those that founded this nation.  We have rejected the ancient wisdom that was handed down to us.
It has been said that those that sow the wind, shall reap the whirlwind.
We are about to experience the consequences of decades of really bad decisions.
Hopefully we can get the American people to wake up.
The following are 50 things that every American should know about the collapse of the economy....
#1 Do you remember how much was made of the "Misery Index" during the presidency of Jimmy Carter?  At that time, the "Misery Index" was constantly making headlines in newspapers all across the country.  Well, according to John Williams of Shadow Government Statistics, if we calculated unemployment and inflation the same way that we did back during the Carter administration, then the Misery Index today would actually be higher than at any point during the presidency of Jimmy Carter.
#2 According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, an average of about 5 million Americans were being hired every single month during 2006.  Today, an average of about 3.5 million Americans are being hired every single month.
#3 According to the Wall Street Journal, there are 5.5 million Americans that are currently unemployed and yet are not receiving unemployment benefits.
#4 All over America, state and local governments are selling off buildings just to pay the bills.  Investors can now buy up government-owned power plants, prisons and municipal buildings from coast to coast.  For example, the mayor of Newark, New Jersey recently sold off 16 government buildings (including the police and fire headquarters) just to pay some bills.
#5 When Americans think of "government debt", most of them only think of the federal government, but it is not just the federal government that has a massive debt problem.  State and local government debt has reached an all-time high of 22 percent of U.S. GDP.
#6 If you can believe it, one out of every seven Americans has at least 10 credit cards.
#7 Credit card usage in the United States is on the increase once again.  During the month of March, revolving consumer credit jumped 2.9%.  Sadly, it looks like Americans have not learned their lessons about the dangers of credit card debt.
#8 Last year, Social Security ran a deficit for the first time since 1983, and the "Social Security deficits" in future years are projected to be absolutely horrific.
#9 The U.S. government now says that the Medicare trust fund will run out five years faster than they were projecting just last year.
#10 Right now we are watching what could potentially be the worst Mississippi River flood ever recorded play out right in front of our eyes.  One agricultural economist at Mississippi State University believes that this disaster could do 2 billion dollars of damage just to farms alone.
#11 The "tornadoes of 2011" that we just saw in the southeast United States are being called the worst natural disaster that the U.S. has seen since Hurricane Katrina.  It has been estimated that up to 25 percent of all of the poultry houses in Alabama were either significantly damaged or destroyed.  It is also believed that millions of birds were killed.
#12 The economic effects of the BP oil spill just seem to go on and on and on.  The number of very sick fish in the Gulf of Mexico is really starting to alarm scientists.  The following is how one local newspaper recently described the situation....
Scientists are alarmed by the discovery of unusual numbers of fish in the Gulf of Mexico and inland waterways with skin lesions, fin rot, spots, liver blood clots and other health problems.
#13 The number of "low income jobs" in the U.S. has risen steadily over the past 30 years and they now account for 41 percent of all jobs in the United States.
#14 All over America, hospitals that care for the poor and needy are so overwhelmed and are so broke that they are being forced to shut down.  Recently, a local newspaper in Florida ran an article about two prominent charity hospitals in Illinois that have served the poor for more than 100 years but are now asking for permission to shut down....
Two charity hospitals in Illinois are facing a life-or-death decision. There's not much left of either of them - one in Chicago's south suburbs, the other in impoverished East St. Louis - aside from emergency rooms crowded with patients seeking free care. Now they would like the state's permission to shut down.
#15 The U.S. dollar is in such bad shape that now even Steve Forbes is predicting that the U.S. is "likely" to go back to a gold standard within the next five years.
#16 Most Americans don't realize how much the U.S. dollar has been devalued over the years.  An item that cost $20.00 in 1970 would cost you $115.93 today.  An item that cost $20.00 in 1913 would cost you $454.36 today.
#17 Over the past 12 months the average price of gasoline in the United States has gone up by about 30%.
#18 U.S. oil companies will bring in about $200 billion in pre-tax profits this year.  They will also receive about $4.4 billion in specialized tax breaks from the U.S. government.
#19 It is being projected that for the first time ever, the OPEC nations are going to bring in over a trillion dollars from exporting oil this year.  Their biggest customer is the United States.
#20 According to the Pentagon, there are minerals worth over a trillion dollars under the ground in Afghanistan.  Now, J.P. Morgan is starting to tap those riches with the help of the U.S. military.
#21 Speaking of J.P. Morgan, most Americans don't realize that they are actually the largest processor of food stamp benefits in the United States.  In fact, the more Americans that go on food stamps the more money that J.P. Morgan makes.
#22 When 2007 began, there were about 26 million Americans on food stamps.  Today, there are over 44 million on food stamps, and one out of every four American children is on food stamps.
#23 Back in 1965, only one out of every 50 Americans was on Medicaid.  Today, one out of every 6 Americans is on Medicaid.
#24 Only 66.8% of American men had a job last year.  That was the lowest level that has ever been recorded in all of U.S. history.
#25 The financial system is more vulnerable today than it was back in 2008 before the financial panic. Today, the world financial system has been turned into a giant financial casino where bets are made on just about anything you can possibly imagine, and the major Wall Street banks make a ton of money from this betting system.  The system is largely unregulated (the new "Wall Street reform" law has only changed this slightly) and it is totally dominated by the big international banks. The danger from derivatives is so great that Warren Buffet once called them "financial weapons of mass destruction". It is estimated that the "derivatives bubble" is somewhere in the neighborhood of a quadrillion dollars, and once it pops there isn't going to be enough money in the entire world to bail everyone out.
#26 Between December 2000 and December 2010, the United States ran a total trade deficit of 6.1 trillion dollars with the rest of the world, and the U.S. has had a negative trade balance every single year since 1976.
#27 The United States has lost an average of 50,000 manufacturing jobs per month since China joined the World Trade Organization in 2001, and the U.S. trade deficit with China is now 27 times larger than it was back in 1990.
#28 In 2010, the number one U.S. export to China was "scrap and trash".
#29 All over the United States, many of our once great manufacturing cities are being transformed into hellholes.  In the city of Detroit today, there are over 33,000 abandoned houses, 70 schools are being permanently closed down, the mayor wants to bulldoze one-fourth of the city and you can literally buy a house for one dollar in the worst areas.
#30 During the first three months of this year, less new homes were sold in the U.S. than in any three month period ever recorded.
#31 New home sales in the United States are now down 80% from the peak in July 2005.
#32 America's real estate crisis just seems to get worse and worse.  U.S. home prices have now fallen a whopping 33% from where they were at during the peak of the housing bubble.
#33 According to a new report from the AFL-CIO, the average CEO made 343 times more money than the average American did last year.
#34 The European debt crisis could cause a global financial collapse like the one that we saw in 2008 at any time.  The world economy is incredibly interconnected today, and the United States would not be immune.  A recent IMF report stated the following about the growing sovereign debt crisis in Europe....
Strong policy responses have successfully contained the sovereign debt and financial-sector troubles in the euro area periphery so far. But contagion to the core euro area and then onward to emerging Europe remains a tangible risk.
#35 According to one study, the 50 U.S. state governments are collectively 3.2 trillion dollars short of what they need to meet their pension obligations.
#36 A different study has shown that individual Americans are $6.6 trillion short of what they need to retire comfortably.
#37 The cost of college tuition in the United States has gone up by over 900 percent since 1978.
#38 According to the Bureau of Economic Analysis, health care costs accounted for just 9.5% of all personal consumption back in 1980.  Today they account for approximately 16.3%.
#39 One study found that approximately 41 percent of working age Americans either have medical bill problems or are currently paying off medical debt.
#40 The combined debt of the major GSEs (Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac and Sallie Mae) has increased from 3.2 trillion in 2008 to 6.4 trillion in 2011.  Thanks to our politicians, U.S. taxpayers are standing behind that debt.
#41 The U.S. government is over 14 trillion dollars in debt and the budget deficit for this year is projected to be about 1.5 trillion dollars.  However, if the U.S. government was forced to use GAAP accounting principles (like all publicly-traded corporations must), the U.S. government budget deficit would be somewhere in the neighborhood of $4 trillion to $5 trillion each and every year.
#42 Most Americans don't understand that the Federal Reserve and the debt-based monetary system that it runs are at the very heart of our economic problems.  All of this debt is absolutely crushing us.  The U.S. government spent over 413 billion dollars on interest on the national debt during fiscal 2010, and it is being projected that the U.S. government will be shelling out 900 billion dollars just in interest on the national debt by the year 2019.
#43 Standard & Poor’s has altered its outlook on U.S. government debt from "stable" to "negative" and is warning that the U.S. could soon lose its AAA rating.
#44 In 1980, government transfer payments accounted for just 11.7% of all income.  Today, government transfer payments account for 18.4% of all income.
#45 U.S. households are now receiving more income from the U.S. government than they are paying to the government in taxes.
#46 59 percent of all Americans now receive money from the federal government in one form or another.
#47 According to Gallup, 41 percent of Americans believed that the economy was "getting better" at this time last year.  Today, that number is at just 27 percent.
#48 The wealthiest 1% of all Americans now own more than a third of all the wealth in the United States.
#49 The poorest 50% of all Americans collectively own just 2.5% of all the wealth in the United States.
#50 The percentage of millionaires in Congress is more than 50 times higher than the percentage of millionaires in the general population.
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GOD NOTICES THE LITTLE THINGS



I heard a sermon recently about being faithful in the little things. The speaker said that when we're faithful in the little things, even when we think no one notices, God notices. He sees our determination and eventually he will bless us with bigger and better things to be faithful in.

There are so many little ways we can be faithful. Did you ever buy something in the grocery store and then change your mind about it? Have you ever tucked a bag of cookies in the bread aisle? That's what I'm talking about. No one saw you do it, but you knew that you should have put those cookies back where you got them.

Every day, we do little things here and there that bring disorder to our lives. We are lazy when we should be ambitious. Sometimes I get so tired of standing at the kitchen sink and tackling yet another round of dishes, I just walk away. Some members of my family have a habit of dropping dirty clothes and wet towels on the floor. The paper clutter of mail, magazines, newspapers, artwork, school papers and everything else becomes a small mountain to sift through after only a few days.

These are the little things God wants us to be faithful with. My husband is the organized one in the family. He always reminds us that Heaven is an organized place. I've come a long way, but I have a long way to go.  I'm still trying to become a better listener (another little thing). I'm still trying to build patience, speak encouraging words, keep my car organized, improve my memory, use my time well, be a focused reader, and a disciplined eater.

When we fail to be victorious in these little things, they can become big issues and make our lives miserable. All God asks is that we make an effort. If he sees us making an effort, he will bless us. Be faithful in the little things and watch your blessings grow.

Sunday, May 15, 2011

A BLOGGER WHO THINKS LIKE ME

May 14, 2011


The Shaking of the Nations

We come, as we so often do, to the reminder that “only one life, twill soon be past, only what’s done for Christ will last.” Meanwhile, the days hasten on for the return of Christ. All the signs are happening just as the Bible said. Even now the Antichrist may be alive somewhere on planet earth. All across the globe the nations are beginning to shake. The first days of dawn are streaking the eastern skies. Somewhere in heaven Gabriel is warming up his trumpet. And in Israel scientists report the birth of the first red heifer in 2000 years.

What fantastic days these are. Remember what Jesus said. “When all these things begin to take place, stand up and lift up your heads, because your redemption is drawing near” (Luke 21:28). Let us not be afraid, not even a little bit. Fear not, child of God, for the plan of the ages is in the hand of Almighty God. Build your life on those things that will last forever and you will never be disappointed.

One final word and I am done. Jesus is coming again. Do you know him? No question is more important for time or for eternity. Recently I saw a bumper stick with a fascinating play on words:
Know Jesus? Know life.
No Jesus? No life.

How true. If you know Jesus, you also know life for he came to provide “life more abundantly” (John 10:10). But if you don’t know Jesus, you don’t even know what life itself is all about. Run to the cross, embrace the dying form of the Son of God. Rest all your hopes on Jesus. Believe that he died and rose from the dead and you will be saved. Look to Jesus and no matter what happens around you, your future will be secure.

Friday, May 13, 2011

TAKING THE SCENIC ROUTE


I was pushing my grocery cart to the parking lot at Wal Mart when I realized that I forgot where I parked.  I ended up making a giant circle and when I finally spotted my car, I was pushing the cart back toward the store instead of away from it. As I unloaded my groceries, I noticed an old man with a huge smile on his face walking toward me and looking straight at me.  His smile was so jolly, he was almost laughing. Then finally he spoke and I realized what had him so amused: "And here I thought only us old guys took the scenic route," he said. "I guess I wasn't supposed to see that," he added with a chuckle.

I drove home feeling amused by his comment. The things we do really are entertaining at times. It's great to be organized and sharp minded, but sometimes it's just more fun to take the scenic route through life. Have you ever taken a wrong turn on a road trip and discovered something amazing that you would have missed if you had followed your directions perfectly? That's what I'm talking about. It's these chance surprises that make life more adventurous and full of discoveries. And if we live life with a strict set of rules, we miss out on some great scenery.

I'm not talking about moral or ethical rules.  I'm talking about the self-imposed rules we create for ourselves and our children.  These rules cause us to make decisions that prevent fun and discovery. I know people who do everything according to a rigid set of rules, and I find myself not wanting to be around them.  Everything I do and say comes under their scrutiny.  I can't live up to their orderly expectations.

I'd like to think that even God takes the scenic route sometimes. Life isn't all about rules. Sometimes it's about the reasons behind the things we do. But when we're rigid and rule-minded, we miss the reasons and we miss the chance to discover beautiful details about people, places, and things.





If a husband insists on a perfectly ordered home every day, he might overlook when his wife doesn't feel well and that's why the house is a mess. He makes his ridiculous rule more important than his wife.  Another example is someone who makes it a rule never to accept charity or any kind of help.  That pride deprives others of both the satisfaction of helping, and the blessing they'll get in return.  Think of the friendships that don't have a chance to bloom because of stubborn pride.

Taking the scenic route is sometimes the best road to take. If I had been rule-minded and sharp that day at Wal Mart, I would have taken note of where I parked. But I would have missed out on a happy moment of seeing an old man laugh and being the reason for his amusement. Some of life's best moments happen when we toss our rigid rules, reject our strict standards and instead take the scenic route.   


THE ONLY ONE ON MY LIST

It's mid afternoon and all I accomplished so far today is prayer.  Unfolded laundry awaits.  Dirty dishes nag me every time I walk by them.  The carpet needs a sweeping.  I need to catch up.  I feel forever behind on my list of things that need done.  Get it done!  That constant voice rings in my head.

I look around and see everything that needs attention.  Every moment I could be busy with something.  When I finish one task, another is waiting.  But today I refuse.  I refuse to feel guilty.  I refuse to be part of the "Get it Done" mentality.  I'm spending the day with my Lord.  Not because I'm lazy, but because I need to be filled with His comfort and peace.  There's a longing in my heart today.  Staying busy can't satisfy it.

Perhaps our busyness has become a way to ignore how much we need God.  He created us to need Him, but we stuff that longing down deep under a pile of responsibility.  We hope that staying busy will bring satisfaction.  We tell ourselves that when we finish our tasks we will feel more comfortable.  We'll have peace as soon as we get it done.

We've replaced God with busyness.  And our tasks are never complete.  There is no peace when staying busy is your God.  The list keeps growing.  There is no rest.  We never feel like we've arrived.  We're forever trying to get there.  Always in a state of longing, reaching, wanting.  But the peace never comes.  The comfort eludes us.  We feel like it's never enough.  I'm never enough.

Busyness breeds feelings of inadequacy.  I look around my home and see dust, dishes, dog hair, and laundry.  I should be more on top of things.  But perhaps today God is telling me to forget these things.  Maybe I feel this way because I need a fresh filling of something more powerful than housework.  I can't ignore the emptiness in my soul or try to fill it with my checked off list of chores.  Today God is the only one on my list.  He's more satisfying than an empty kitchen sink, more comforting than clean carpet.

The world tells me to get it done and if I fall behind, then I'm a loser.  God tells me to seek Him and He will give me peace and all the desires of my heart.  I never feel guilty in His presence.  I'm always enough.  I don't have to perform to win His approval.  It's just me, without my list of accomplishments.  Only me, nothing else.  I can finally rest.  I guess I needed that today.

Monday, May 9, 2011

WHY WE SUFFER

Some interesting health information from John McTernan's Insights.  You may not agree with his opinions, but I find some of his comments fascinating and worth looking into.  I'm definitely looking into the connection between allergies and a lack of vitamin D.  To fully access his blog, click on his link at the right side of my page under "World Events and Prophecy." 

   I believe the root of many maladies that people are suffering from can be from sin. For example, the verse I posted about the root of bitterness. I have posted articles about how unforgiveness can affect your heart and immune system. The violation of God's word can lead to serious illness and death. Many people are depressed and suffering from anxiety because of unforgiveness. If you are suffering from depression, check to see if it could be unforgiveness which has developed into a root of bitterness. Many maladies can be cured by getting one's heart right with God.
Proverbs 17:22 A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.
The word medicine means a cure in Hebrew. Notice how a broken spirit dries up the bones! Both the red and white blood cells are made in the bones! When there is trouble in the spiritual heart, it directly affects the bones and the blood. Remember the life of the flesh is in the blood!
Leviticus 17:11 For the life of the flesh is in the blood:
But in addition to being ineffective, they are far from harmless and are now associated with many serious health problems: 
Diabetes: Your risk for type 2 diabetes is two to three times higher if you take antidepressants, according to one study.
Problems with your immune system: SSRIs cause serotonin to remain in your nerve junctions longer, interfering with immune cell signaling and T cell growth. 
Suicidal thoughts and feelings and violent behavior : Your risk for suicide may be twice as high if you take SSRIs; seven out of twelve school shootings were by children who were either on antidepressants or withdrawing from them. 
Stillbirths: A Canadian study of almost 5,000 mothers found that women on SSRIs were twice as likely to have a stillbirth, and almost twice as likely to have a premature or low birth weight baby; another study showed a 40 percent increased risk for birth defects, such as cleft palate. 
Brittle bones: One study showed women on antidepressants have a 30 percent higher risk of spinal fracture and a 20 percent high risk for all other fractures. 
Stroke: Your risk for stroke may be 45 percent higher if you are on antidepressants, possibly related to how the drugs affect blood clotting 
Death: Overall death rates have been found to be 32 percent higher in women on antidepressants.
Depression is NOT a Chemical Imbalance in Your Brain "As a family physician I have treated many thousands of depressed patients. Depression was actually one of my primary concerns in the mid 80s when I first started practicing, however at that time my primary tool was using antidepressants. I put thousands of people on these drugs and acquired a fair level of experience in this area. Thankfully I learned more and was able to stop using all these drugs. It was my experience that the chemical imbalance was merely a massive marketing gimmick to support the use of expensive and toxic antidepressants. Most of you have probably heard that depression is due to a "chemical imbalance in your brain," which these drugs are designed to correct. Unfortunately for anyone who has ever swallowed this marketing ploy, this is NOT a scientific statement."
   I am posting, for a second time, a study about how much Vitamin D3 is needed to maintain maximum health. The Health and Nutrition section of the blog as been a tremendous help to me. As I posted articles about health, the value and importance of Vitamin D became overwhelming. I had no idea of this until studying to make the posts! This vitamin is the single most important nutritional item for your health.
Markedly Higher Vitamin D Intake Needed to Reduce Cancer Risk  "We found that daily intakes of vitamin D by adults in the range of 4000-8000 IU are needed to maintain blood levels of vitamin D metabolites in the range needed to reduce by about half the risk of several diseases -- breast cancer, colon cancer, multiple sclerosis, and type 1 diabetes,"
Nutrition 
Vitamin D Levels Linked With Health of Blood Vessels  "The results add to evidence that lack of vitamin D can lead to impaired vascular health, contributing to high blood pressure and the risk of cardiovascular disease. Study participants who increased their vitamin D levels were able to improve vascular health and lower their blood pressure."
Low Vitamin D Levels Linked to Allergies in Kids  "A study of more than 3,000 children shows that low vitamin D levels are associated with increased likelihood that children will develop allergies"
Zinc Reduces the Burden of the Common Cold Zinc does help prevent or lessen the effect of a cold. This mineral helps boost the immune system. 
Music Linked to Depression in Teens  "Teenagers who spend more time listening to music are more likely to suffer from depression than kids who opt to spend their time reading."
**FDA Warns - Do NOT Use This Pain Reliever**  NEVER use this on a child! If you have it at home, throw it away.
"Benzocaine is a local anesthetic commonly used as a topical pain reliever. You can also find it in cough drops, throat sprays, and gels or liquids used for teething and canker sores (cold sores).
However, you need to be careful when using these products, especially on children. The FDA is now sounding the alarm as they continue receiving reports of methemoglobinemia, which is a potentially life threatening side effect of the drug."
Dietary, Lifestyle Changes Can Significantly Reduce Triglycerides "Changes such as substituting healthy, unsaturated dietary fats for saturated ones, engaging in physical activity and losing excess weight can decrease triglycerides by 20 percent to 50 percent,"
Cause of Fatal Inflammation of the Heart Muscle Identified "Scientists ... have found out that inflammations of the heart muscle are caused by attacks of a specific type of immune cells. These immune cells attack the body's own tissue because during their maturation they did not have the chance to develop tolerance against a protein that is only found in the heart muscle." 
Study: Keeping Gums Healthy May Also Keep Lungs Healthy I have often warned to keep your teeth and gums in good health because diseased gums affect the circulatory system. Now there is a connection between diseased gums and lung disorders.
"Gum disease and dental work to correct it have been tied to a host of more serious health problems including heart disease, stroke and diabetes. Now, new research suggests that healthy gums might also mean healthy lungs."
The Truth About Cholesterol
Remember you are responsible for your own health: Act now!
3 John 1:2 Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

MOMS SHOULD STICK TOGETHER

Our achievement-oriented culture is a hostile environment for mothers. Working mothers are criticized for putting career before children and stay-at-home mothers are criticized for wasting their talents at home and not having an income.  The hostility worsens when mothers take sides against each other.

I remember the stess I felt working as a teacher's aide. I had less patience because I had spent all day with kids and coming home to my own wasn't something I looked forward to. I was exhausted. My daughter was constantly telling me that I wasn't listening. She had to repeat things because I had zoned out. My brain couldn't take any more in. I had spent most of my day and all of my energy being there for other people's children and had nothing left to give my own. I felt robbed. My daughter was robbed too. All she got was leftovers.

Which is worse? Being a stay-at-home mom who gets no respect in an achievement-oriented culture or being a working mom who can't be everything to everyone? Both choices are stressful. And no matter which role a woman chooses, she deserves respect, especially from other women.

Women should be helping each other, not condemning each other. Working mothers should applaud stay-at-home moms. Many of them are watching their children.  And stay-at-home moms should have compassion for working moms. As mothers, we share a common bond, and for the sake of our children, we should support one another.

When women help each other, they ease one another's daily frustrations.  Whether at home or at work, mothers should stick together because our children need us. Working mothers and stay-at-home mothers have forgotten how much they have in common. Mothers are mothers no matter where they spend their days.  Happy Mothers Day to all moms.  Paycheck or not, you have the most important job in the world.

Thursday, May 5, 2011

AN INSPIRATION, NOT A ROLE MODEL

She’s perfect. She does everything perfectly. She says just the right thing. She has countless talents and abilities. Her household runs smoothly. She works tirelessly into the night. And her husband and children admire her and praise her. Who can live up to the description of the “ideal” woman in the book of Proverbs? I haven’t met a woman yet who comes close to her. If you’re not familiar with this perfect woman, you might want to read Proverbs 31: 10-31.

I get tired just reading about her. She does it all. There’s no task she can’t manage. To be like her, I would have to learn how to sew, spin wool, upholster furniture, and plant a vineyard. I’d also have to get up before dawn and work far into the night. Does God really expect me to be that perfect…that energetic?

With a sigh of relief, I read the answer to that question in the footnotes of my life application bible: “Do not see her as a model to imitate in every detail; your days are not long enough to do everything she does! See her instead as an inspiration to be all you can be. We can’t be just like her, but we can learn from her industry, integrity, and resourcefulness.”

Okay, I can handle that. She’s an inspiration, not a role model. So what is it about her that can inspire me? As I read this description of the perfect woman, I notice something peculiar. Not once, not even vaguely is her appearance ever mentioned. Her attractiveness comes entirely from her character. In today’s society, where physical appearance means so much, we can truly be inspired by a woman like this.

Isn’t it great to know that our physical appearance has no bearing on our value in God’s eyes. Only when we look to the world for appreciation do we get caught up in the shallow shell of physical appearance. What an inspiration to know a woman who is more concerned with her choice of words than her choice of lipstick.

Another source of inspiration this perfect woman offers is the way she relates to people, especially her husband. Her husband can trust her. She richly satisfies his needs, and she doesn’t hinder him, but helps him all her life.  I know women who thrive on flirting with any man that takes notice. They aren’t helpful to their husbands; they actually make life more difficult for them. And they could care less about satisfying any needs that aren’t their own.

How does a woman make life difficult for her husband? By failing to watch for bargains, she puts a financial burden on him. By living above her means and wanting things they can’t afford, she wears him out with her constant demands. By neglecting her household and being lazy, she makes life difficult for her entire family. To that, I must add that a husband and children are capable of helping with household chores and they should help when a woman works full-time outside the home. No woman should be expected to work two full-time jobs. Raising children and keeping a house is a full-time job in itself.

The perfect woman in the book of Proverbs has an overall helpful attitude toward everyone. She doesn’t see her husband as someone to compete with. She doesn’t see other women as competition. She doesn’t argue with people about trivial matters. She doesn’t take joy in making others look bad. She’s a helpmate to her husband. She helps the poor and has compassion for those less fortunate. She helps anyone in need. She’s a helpful force in her community, and she helps her children by teaching them and encouraging them. She has strength and dignity. Her words are wise and kindness is the rule for everything she says.

What an inspiration! The Proverbs woman has a caring heart, hard-working hands, financial wisdom, reverence for God, and mental foresight. These are the qualities we should be working on. Next time you put on make-up and fluff your hair think about the beauty that has no fear of old age. Inner beauty never fades. The world needs more of that kind of beauty. The perfect woman of Proverbs might not get a magazine cover, but she gets everything else that women want. Her inner beauty attracts all the desires of her heart.

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

EVERYTHING'S THE SAME?

The scoffer says everything's the same as it's always been.  Everything is business as usual.  There have always been storms.  Yes, there have always been storms, but you can't deny they are increasing in both frequency and intensity.

A record 226 tornadoes recorded over 24 hours last week

Click on the link below to watch an AP video and see what these storms left behind.  

 http://content.usatoday.com/communities/ondeadline/post/2011/05/a-record-226-tornadoes-recorded-over-24-hours-last-week/1

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

DON'T OVERLOOK THE JOY

Tulips at my front porch
A Happy Crowd awaits as I head to the mailbox
A Special Friend at my feet
More tulips at my front porch

How often do we stop and really see the things God has placed in our lives, things that were meant to bring us joy.  How often do we appreciate the people in our lives?  And do we thank Him for the blessings that surround us.  Gratefulness doesn't come naturally.  It takes practice.  We learn to be grateful through a mindful, daily effort.  It's a decision.  Every day we decide if we will be grumbly or grateful.  Today I chose to be grateful.  And it was a good day.

Sunday, May 1, 2011

GIFTS FROM GOD

Today at the supermarket I almost lost my cool.  The woman behind me at the checkout had a little boy with her.  As she unloaded her groceries, she pointed to a spot on the floor and said, "Stand right there!"  The little guy didn't budge.  So she yanked him toward the designated spot and proceeded to lecture him for not following orders.  She babbled for an entire minute, threatening to deny him everything from an afternoon at the park to his favorite candy on the way home.  She was loud about it too.  I think she wanted the whole store to know who's boss.

I believe in discipline, and I've used the "No candy if you don't listen" bribe myself.  But this woman was enjoying this too much, as if yelling at her child made her feel important.  When she finished her lecture, the little fellow had the saddest look on his face, and it took all the restraint I had not to walk over to him and give him a hug.  I hope that mother did give her son a hug when she got home with her groceries.  I hope she held him tight and told him she's having a bad day and she's sorry that she took it out on him.

But more than likely, that didn't happen.  That child will probably see many more days like today.  And he'll spend his life longing for any indication that he's worthy of loving.  The bible says that death and life are in the power of the tongue.  That woman spewed death all over that little boy's spirit.  Children were not put on this earth to be verbal or physical punching bags for their stressed-out parents.  Children are gifts from God.  Nothing makes me more emotional than child abuse.  Those who hurt children will one day see the wrath of God.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

TUNING IN TO GOD'S VOICE

Women are hard on themselves.  They put other women on pedestals and think they don't come close to the talent that she has, the beauty that she has, the amazing abilities that she has.  They think she has it all together.  Compared to her, they fall short.

Why can't I do that?  Why can't I be like her?  Why doesn't God bless me with such talent?

It's hard to attend a gathering of women and not feel the tension in the air.  Women compare.  They watch.  Their eyes go up and down.  They long to be fabulous, like her.  But what they don't realize is that they are fabulous, just in a different way than she is.

Why doesn't a mother who takes care of her family think she's doing something worthwhile?  Why isn't it enough?   Why does she need to be more?  Because the voices of our culture tell her that if she wants to be somebody, she must forget what's at home and make her mark on the world.  Those voices need to be silenced.  Yet every time someone asks her, "What do you do?" she hears faint whispers that she's not enough.  So she strives to be more.  She needs to prove herself.

Perhaps there is a calling in her heart to do more, but maybe it's not the right season.  Why is it so hard for her to focus on being a wife and mother and be satisfied with that?  Why does she compare herself to others and feel she doesn't measure up? 

Because she doesn't realize she's an artist.  Everything she does at home requires strength, creativity, and talent.  But who notices her efforts?  God does.  But because the world isn't praising her, she feels insignificant.  So she vows to do more.  She wants to be amazing beyond her home.  She wants to be seen as fabulous in the world.

I wrote a speech about finding our identity in Christ instead of seeking acceptance in today's culture.  It's titled, Worldy Woman, Godly Woman: Which One Are You?  Whether you're a career woman or a stay-at-home mom, you'll be inspired to find your security in the only One who can make you feel secure.
I'll be sharing this speech on Saturday May 21 at Grace Community Church, Herndon, PA, below Line Mountain High School.  If you'll be in the area on that day, please plan to attend.  Call Dianne Smeltz at 570-758-8404 and make reservations by Saturday, May 14.

And if you can't attend, please check out the blog below called Chatting At the Sky: A Place For Your Soul to Breathe.  Here you'll be convinced that you are an artist and what you do has purpose, importance and meaning.  It's time to stop comparing and see yourself as fabulous.  Because you are in so many ways.


http://www.chattingatthesky.com/2011/01/24/in-which-i-convince-you-that-you-are-an-artist/

Sunday, April 24, 2011

THERE WILL BE SCOFFERS

Many people who call themselves Christians know little or nothing about what Christ said.  Many Christians who are supposed to be filled with the blessed hope of the rapture of the church refuse to believe that event may be near (the bible calls them scoffers).  The book of Hebrews says that the hope we have is an anchor of the soul, both sure and steadfast.

Why would anyone who calls himself a Christian want to crush another Christian's hope?  Yet this happens every day when Christians refuse to see the warnings Jesus gave us about the last days.  They say everything is the same as it always was and they refuse to see the signs Jesus warned about, signs that are increasing in both frequency and intensity, just like labor pains before a baby is born.

Not believing doesn't make anything untrue.  Truth will come to pass no matter what a scoffer believes.  Christ predicted there would be scoffers in the last days.  What's amazing is that many of these scoffers call themselves Christians.  And they crush the hope of other Christians who take the Bible literally.

As In The Days Of Noah
From Now The End Begins blog 
http://www.nowtheendbegins.com

What does it mean to say we are in the “days of Noah?” This phrase means one thing to you, and something else to others. The truth is, it means many things. One large portion of comparing today to the days of Noah is the old phrase, “eat drink and be merry.” Try for a moment to name one other person in the Bible story that was preparing along with Noah for that flood……..got one? You can’t name any person outside of Noah’s family that took his warnings seriously.

When Jesus returns, on which side of the boat will you be on?
They were all going about their lives, not concerned in the least of the coming flood. Noah continuously warned the people, and they continuously ignored. Maybe in your own life you’ve experienced the deaf ears your warnings fall on. Those without faith in God do not take these warnings seriously…nor the people God uses to warn them.  Does this sound familiar? Recent? This leads to the next point about Noah. Scoffers.
Noah trusted God, and knew the flood was coming. People, get ready, it’s about to rain.
When Noah did warn others, they “scoffed” at him. They made fun of him, made him the butt of their jokes and did nothing to prepare themselves for the coming disaster. They went about their lives, laughing at Noah the whole time. This is why only Noah and his family were saved. For Christians, we are the “Noah’s family” in our current scenario…but the coming rapture is no disaster. It will be horrendous, however, for those left behind. This leads to another point in describing the current days of Noah, the state of the world.
Therefore you also be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.
This world has pushed God out of everything. He is not allowed in schools, courts, TV, books, radio…In the days of Noah, the book of Genesis tells us, “And God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. And it repented the LORD that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart.” Again, sound familiar? Abortion kills approximately 3000 babies PER DAY. The institution of marriage is under attack. Violence is extremely high. Pornography is one of the highest money makers of any entertainment field. Pedophiles are luring children in on the internet so much that TV shows showcase it on a weekly basis….this could go on, but you probably get the point. We are a wicked world, and each day, we make the wrong things into totally acceptable behavior. Tolerance is starting to really mean allowance. To speak against Biblically unacceptable behavior means you are filled with hate. This is exactly what God saw during the days of Noah.

WOMEN NEED FACE TO FACE CHATTING

Happy Easter!  And congratulations to Kim Hawkins of San Antonio Texas for winning the Easter Giveaway.  She'll be receiving my print Summer Harvest.  Kim said her favorite flower is a daisy. 

My tulips opened up today and with the warm weather, I'm feeling like the gloomy cold winter is finally behind us.  I spent the day with my family yesterday and enjoyed chatting with the women in our family, My mom, my sister, my sister-in-law and my brother's girlfriend who just got engaged, so she'll be my sister-in-law some day.  We decided that we need to have these chats more often.

"This is what women did years ago," my sister said.  And I replied that this is what's missing from many women's lives.  They have no connection to other women and no one to talk to about their lives and daily struggles.  Many women are isolated and living without the safety net of a circle of friends and family.  I"m grateful that I have caring women in my family.  They've helped me and encouraged me in so many ways.

Women need to talk and they need to do it face to face.  Without that real physical connection to other women, I feel like something is missing from my life.  There's an emptiness.  No amount of chatting on facebook can fill the void.  I believe God created women to need each other.  It's too bad that women aren't more sociable and supportive of one another as a whole.  Maybe we need to start up quilting parties again.

I remember sitting under the quilt frame as a child and listening to the conversations of the older women.  Those women were my mother, my grandmother, as well as relatives and friends of the family.  There was a comfort in that room when those women got together.  It seemed like the most natural thing in the world to do.  Yet how many women today actually schedule time to have a good conversation and enjoy each other's company?

As I sat around that table yesterday, sharing the joys and sorrows of life with the women in my family, I felt so grateful to be blessed with their company.  I thanked God for the gift of them.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

MAYBE IT'S THE TOXINS?

Today as I was organizing paper clutter, I came across an article about toxins in the products we use everyday.  Research links five of the most commonly used chemicals in the world to a host of ailments, including cancer, sexual problems, and behavioral issues.  

Did you know that plastic with a number 7 on the bottom probably contains Bisphenol A unless it explicitly says otherwise.  Bisphenol A poses a potential cancer risk and may disrupt the extremely sensitive chemical signals in your body called the endocrine system.  

Avoid shampoos, conditioners, and other personal care products that list "fragrance" as an ingredient.  This means the product contains Phthalates, chemicals that soften plastic.  They also disrupt reproductive development and are considered endocrine disruptors.  

Did you know that overheating nonstick cookware releases a toxic gas? This is why I got a headache when I used Teflon coated pans or grills.  I've since thrown them out.  Perfluorooctanoic acid (PFOA, also called C8) is used to make Teflon nonstick and stain or water-repellent products.  PFOA causes cancer and developmental problems.

Formaldehyde is used in the manufacture of pressed wood products.  It is a known human carcinogen, causing cancers of the respiratory or gastrointestinal tract.  Buying furniture free of formaldehyde eliminates much of the exposure you face from this checmical.

Then we have PBDE's a group of chemicals used as flame retardants. Polybrominated diphenyl ethers may damage your liver and kidneys and affect your brain and behavior.  Look for products made without PBDE flame retardants.  

Below is the second article I came across today about toxins.  Someone must be trying to tell me something.  Or maybe it's you that needs to start reading labels.  This stuff could be making you or someone you know sick.  Read on.

http://simpleorganic.net/identifying-and-avoiding-toxins-in-beauty-and-personal-care-products/

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

THE FLIPSIDE OF FEMINISM

Feminism's legacy: 'Heartache, STDs, abortion'

'It turns out human nature cannot be repealed by judicial fiat'



Posted: March 08, 2011
9:12 pm Eastern
By Anita Crane
© 2011 WorldNetDaily

"The truth is that feminism is the single worst thing that happened to American women."
So wrote Suzanne Venker and her aunt, Phyllis Schlafly, in "The Flipside of Feminism" What Conservative Women Know – and Men Can't Say."
And if that doesn’t elicit feminist fury or bewilderment, what will? But it's more reason for feminists and non-feminists to read this new title published by WND Books.

After all, you'll see people you know, people you love – maybe even yourself – in "The Flipside of Feminism," the authors say.  "My hope is that any person between the ages of 18 and 50, male or female, who feels as though they've absorbed feminist ideology, will read this book," said Venker, who describes herself first and foremost as a wife and mom, even though she's authored a previous book and numerous articles.

Schlafly, author or editor of 20 books, founder of the Eagle Forum, and Supreme Court attorney most famous for leading the Equal Rights Amendment defeat, hopes that the young will read "Flipside" before they make "too many mistakes.  "I want them to understand that everything the feminists are telling us is really a lie," said the widow, and proud mother and grandmother. "Feminism teaches young women to think of themselves as victims of the patriarchy. That's so unfortunate because American women are the most fortunate who have ever lived – we can make anything we want of our lives."

What, then, is this thing that Venker and Schlafly call the "F word"?  In brief, feminism is the radical agenda of what they dubbed "the Feminine Left."




For example, typically feminists seek all the powers of men while hating men and ultimately despising their own feminine nature. This is but one contradiction in feminist agenda. And once feminists declared men unnecessary, they engineered big government to take the place of husbands and fathers, the authors say.

"The animus against men is very evident in what they're doing," said Schlafly. "They look upon marriage as a dreary life. Betty Friedan called the housewife 'a parasite who lives in a concentration camp.' Gloria Steinem said you become a 'semi-nonperson' when you get married. A lot of these feminist leaders came out of dysfunctional families and they're projecting their personal problems onto society."

As the authors explain, "feminism is in the air." Liberal or unwitting parents indoctrinate their children at home, teachers push it in school and college, then in college or work, young women are taught to think only of themselves, chasing careers rather than love and family. As a result, many women resort to casual sex, spend long hours at work, and wake up in midlife realizing their lives are empty.  Other women marry, concentrate on their careers, and abandon their families with no-fault divorce, they write.

Nevertheless, Schlafly and Venker, who write in a scholarly but fluid, tough-love and maternal way, found that most women want to be married and even more want to have children.  "Heartache, broken relationships, failed marriages, sexually-transmitted diseases, abortion, and skyrocketing rates of emotionally wounded children have been the real legacy of feminism. It turns out – no surprise – that human nature cannot be repealed, overturned by judicial fiat, or reshaped by media messages," said Schlafly.

For these authors, the wreckage of feminism isn't just some study. Like many American men, it seems Venker's first husband had taken feminism to heart. "In our chapter on marriage, and in the last chapter with our roadmap, I talk about how geography is an issue for women today," said Venker. "Because so many women go away to school and get degrees so far away from home, their chances of meeting someone from out of state and then staying away are great. It's making motherhood stressful because mothers don't have support and help from their own moms. That's what happened in my case.

"We were living in New York and I wanted to come back to St. Louis, but my husband was a New Yorker and I just couldn't get him to do that," she said. "When I explained to him that family, specifically motherhood, was going to be the focus of my life and I wanted to be near my family, it just didn't work with him because he had absorbed feminist ideology: He was fine with abortion, casual sex and then he wasn't willing to move so that we could have family at the center of our lives."

Heartache isn't the only expense of feminism. Schlafly stressed that because of broken families, especially single mothers, 40 percent of Americans now depend on government for all or part of their living expenses, and that cost to taxpayers is about $1 trillion per year.  Considering today's turbulent times and tea party activism, one of the best parts of "Flipside" tells how and why the Equal Rights Amendment failed.

Yes, years after Betty Freidan told Phyllis Schlafly, "I'd like to burn you at the stake," left-wing tactics are just as ugly and violent today.  While Venker said that "feminism has sabotaged women's happiness," she wrote the book because she believes it's never too late for women and men to change.

"It's my hope that people get charged – a renewed hopefulness – from having someone open up the door to a completely different way of viewing women in society, marriage, motherhood, work and sex and all things," said Venker. "I hope that women – and men – realize that the [natural] things they're thinking are good and they're tired of having to follow the path set forth by all the feminists they've known, maybe feminist mothers or feminist professors. I hope they use this book to chart a new course."
"The Flipside of Feminism," by Suzanne Venker and Phyllis Schlafly will be available March 15.

Read more: Feminism's legacy: 'Heartache, STDs, abortion' http://www.wnd.com/?pageId=272353#ixzz1GSSv4Sk9